Thursday, January 17, 2013

Husband become ATM for wife

A child of the younger member in the family

Growing Period :
- Less caring of the family member
- Staying in the room similar as store room(with blocking windows).
- Study result in average due to not being caring and also look down and comparing by paretns to other child or children

Working Age :
- Every month as enough for fix expenses without entertainment
- Every month after pay day waiting for next pay day for few years
- Found a partner after few partners and this partner light up my days of making my monthly extra money increase.

Marriage age
A : Before
- Parents seem to be not supporting and make my day getting worse
- Saving since child time being freeze and said not own by me as for expenses of being bring to travel previously
B : After
- Staying with parents just about 1 year run out from family as the child being treat like burden the parents
- Runned out have home with wife cause expenses monthly negative. No choice have to use Credit Card to maintain every month. Discussed with wife however problem not solve made credit amount increase every month.

Divorce occur
- Problem occur due to wife caring her own sufficient usage but not the husband
- Husband get into more than RM15K personal loan and being blame for husband use even though husband is just every month cover up.

Divorce cancel(Back to Marriage Life)
- Wife problem to settle down together slowly however extra usage getting increase again.
- Husband get into more than RM40K personal loan again plus Cards usage and extra amount which use to cover the RM15K personal loan.
- The extra money and card usage is for cover up monthly wife insufficient.

What can this Husband do to settle down all the LOANS which the wife only cares of her own sufficient but not husband insufficient?

A Daim Shhit PPL in a Family

This family has 6 member with including parents(4 children). The Eldest is the most being taking care by with sucks attitude.

On the growing age(around 20s) this Eldest has insane action which trying to kill the younger just because of the suspected of parents bought something for the younger. The Elder grab a knife and chase the younger till the younger hide inside the room.

On the middle age(above mid 30s) this Eldest's income more than RM5K a mth with single life but act like the King or Queen(free time can sleep until wakeup automatically) :
1. Try to use parents for her benefits only such as getting property for herself but using parent's name.
2. Currently have own property but let out and stay at parent's 2nd hse without assist parents paying
3. Lazy to have meal till back home sit on the sofa talk on phone with friends only and wait for meal to ready or get delivery meal from the younger even the younger is sick.
4. Going for a travel trip with younger cab cost want to safe by asking the younger ask the cab fetch together even though the way to airport is not in the same way and convenience and when alone liek to bother the younger to fetch her to airport even though the younger's time is pack.
5. Like to use parents to make the younger suffer like a mommy's girl by telling the mom when the younger cannot help her something even though ppl busy and insufficient of time such as draft letters since her own home have computer and printer but giving the reason i dono and also for adds on news.
6. Like to ask the younger go for travel as the younger has family, like to bother people's life and marriega life.
7. All above mentioned problem and etc must do for her if not she will call the mom and complaint she unable to complete or settle this and that cos no one help even though those things she can do and solve her own.

Is ther anywhere to get rid of this person?If yes just post your comments.

Thank you.

Written on Jan 2013